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Saturday, December 29, 2007

The Checklist before Break Up

saw this article on yahoo homepage today. lolx pretty good.

see many people dump their partners for silly reasons, i "tear" for them either in sadness or in laughter. i is glad me and my boy had not gave in to these common silly reasons in our 6 years. oh btw, i is leaving for work, so i can't list the silly reasons. do give the article a read, it stated most of the silly reasons LOL.
Labels: My Enlightenment, My Logic, My Random-ness

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Thursday, October 11, 2007

The reason why . . .

. . . since the day i got together with Amos, i nevER tries fortune telling of any type is because i don't wanna let my life with him be manipulated by people like these . . .

cos i don't usually like to take salt much, except with tequila or sake in a matsu cup, so i can't exactly measure too well how much should the pinch of salt be, to take morbid jokes of fortune tellers.

except times when morons choose to forward chain letters to their best friend aka Me, then i will just close it and get on with the better things in life -_-"
Labels: My Complaints Aloud, My Logic, My Random-ness

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Saturday, September 08, 2007

Outings!

happy happy happy x)

probly having a chalet with the guys before sean gets into ns on 15th oct..

ting finishing her event tomorrow, she say after that i can find her ^^ ting ting, my tiles are lonely.. do u hear them screaming for you? =p

yujun is coming back from china on 12th sept, most likely have a choc fondue party for her at amos hse next weekend. wahaha! belvedere vodka + chocolate fondue!!

xD count your blessing once a day, keeps u sane and gay ^^
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Sunday, July 22, 2007

同性结婚，可以吗?

saw yiting's bulletin to ask for comments at Shoot 3 有话就说3 forum; this is my reply there...

why not?

the basis of a bond in marriage is that one will stay with
thy spouse through good times and bad times, through health and through
sickness, through wealth and troubled times.

as long as they abide by
these vows, and truly love each other, why must force them to go through a
marriage with a socially acceptable partner whom they don't love?

i
think it is more cruel to make them live with someone they don't love, and cruel
to make their unloved spouse live with them, then to not have children.

and most of all, if they ever have children with their unloved spouse,
wouldnt it be cruel to have the child at all? to be a child in a home with no
love, how should the child brought up to know how to love, how to have faith in
marriage?

wouldnt that ultimately still lead us to low marriage, low
birth rates, high divorce rates, high social problems due to broken families?

and most of all, there's probably just 1 outta 30 person that you find
gay, you still have 29 others who are not. be it if gay marriage are allowed or
not, the birth rate thingy is a social problem due to the standard of living.
for goodness sake stop heaping this reason on the gay community.

as
maslow's hierarchy has it, its a basic need for a human to seek peer acceptance.
the prescence of gay club shows how lonely this community is, and how outcasted
they are to have to set up their own little communities to support each other.

personally, i have never had the tendency of being attracted to people
of my same gender, hence i don't know how gay people feel or think. but i
believe, as long as they abide by their vow to each other, to love through good
times and bad times, they should be given the support. afterall, the socially
acceptable marriage don't always end up good; look at the divorce rates.

sharing something i heard in a speech from a wedding yesterday,

the only love you get to keep is the love you give away.

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Tuesday, July 10, 2007

To Mystic Vulcan

i dunno why cant post at your blog leh. so i post here la. ^^
btw, i tagged u for a meme, scroll down ya.. one of the posts below this one ^^

in your post about Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs . . .

you mentioned bout the education streams variation affecting the relationships, that falls under the 3 level of the hierarchy. the people seek belongingness and social acceptance. hence when the pretty gal dun even bother to give higher education guys a chance, cos she find that it would be a socially unacceptable behavior, and will not be able to seek belongingness with his and her peers.

kon aspire to climb the corp ladder, ignoring his peers and his subordinates and just keep climbing up to satisfy the forth level of the hierarchy of needs, but eventually he will come to realise that cos his third level of needs is not satisfied, he will fall back again and be unsatisfied. i.e. got job got money, but no fren no honey..

as for the excretion, it is the basic level of the hierarchy of needs. hence we might be able to hold it in and complete the game, but cos the sensation is bugging us, we would not be able to enjoy and perform well in the game as per usual when we are not "urgent"

therefore, variation in of choices in the same level of needs will be dependent on personal priority (eg romeo and juliet); though one may prioritize to jump the level, but ultimately will not succeed or rather sustain for long (eg Kon)

^^ heh heh, i long time no freq your blog, one time comment length worth one year!
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Friday, May 18, 2007

Give.

Christians have this saying that sounds something like that, some where.. think i learnt it from Huiling or Pastor Prince on one of the church session i tag along with huiling to New Creations.

U give a portion of your harvest to God, he will return you, somehow, 7 fold.

Let me pick someone from 217 and give an example, please note that it does not mean that the rest are asses and this guy is an angel. it so happen that its convenient to use him as an example cos he sits beside me and i hear that often LOL.

e.g. When we do our best for our works and take the extra metre to help our clients a little even with things not related to our contract scope, as though its our own wedding, its but a gesture that requires few minutes, but the clients would be happy and become customer advocates and recommend other couples to us.

When that happens, in Sam's words, he would say: Praise the Lord, God is Good.

Either Confucian or one of the old man said:

lao wu lao, yi ji ren zhi lao; you wu you, yi ji ren zhi you.
[treat other people's elders like yours, treat other people's young like yours]

Someone, somehow, somewhere along the way said:

what goes around, comes around.

My Physics Teacher Mr Pang said:

Potential Energy = Kinetic Energy

Elaine Koh (Amos's mum, an entrepreneur) says:

don't so gei gao and plan your steps so carefully and scared people eat your advantage. instead of saving those little benefits, if you have been more benevolent, you would earn more.

Today I say:

mai gei gao. zh'o l'ang hum hum, pua p'eh jia wu l'ang lai tum. [don't be so calculative. be humble, when u sick then got people visit] be sincere. don't wei li shi tu. [don't only do things for the sake of returns]

met someone today that is bloody gei gao. ngeow ga chu't zhup [stingy until he stinks with stingy-juice]. if he is not so gei gan, i believe he would have learnt much more, everyone would have love to share with him much more, and his work would have been dozen folds better.

*shake head*

to think he goes to church on sundays and listens to Pastor Prince's sessions. to think he is Christian, wears a cross, owns a bible but like what Dan was saying of a bible today: eh.. not enlightened wan.. no highlight or writing inside =_=

anyways, as mentioned in the above samples of who-say-what, it is obvious that what i m trying to say is:

give when you can. don't bother yourself so much by being so gei gao. instead of just seeing mis-favors done by people onto you, why don't highlight to yourself what you may have been gei gaoing with people that makes them gei gan you. then again, as Peter says: The Yellow Pages Syndrome patients are 9.5 outta 10 people you meet. it is always convenient to Point Fingers to others and not facing oneself's mistakes.

you people reading this, please be a dear and remind me when my Yellow Pages Syndrome acts up ya.

btw, gei gan = gei gao + gan b*

as of today, thou resolut to use lesser vulgarity in my blog.
thou resolut to take care of my face more so that i can have another photoshoot in near future and get onto the gallery of models in Lawrence's friendster =_=
thou also resolut to become and maintain whiter complexion so that i can wear a red gown and the day red-Kua like the one Kate wore on her wedding (if you are lucky u can view it on vocaremedia.com ~ videos ~ Jeff&Kate's Wedding Highlight)

i is shanghainese, why is me not white~! i mite yearn for black when i turn whiter. doesnt matter. now i want WHITE.

Conversation with Mag on the phone over dinner:

Jo: tomolo wan acc me go BarFly? my friend got contacts and bottles, so no need 21 / 23 =x
Mag: eh my friends advance booked me for clubbing tomolo and next week go Attica liao paisei.
Jo: ai seH. k i book you 1st wk of June. club. dunno where. but hor, most prob wednesday. cos i might be retrenched liao.
Mag: har! serious ar.
Jo: ya. depends on how the guys' discussion goes lor. either retrenched in 2 weeks or probation 2 more months.
Mag: oh..
Jo: if i retrench we go interview together at singapore casket la. i take cab pass by, seems the renov is done leh.
Mag: eh can consider leh.
Jo: ya lor. the florist downstairs looks good.
Mag: ya lor ya lor.
Jo: eh i be florist u be make up artist there la. you so good at doing make up.
Mag: ya can consider.

LOL. sibei crap lor. we talk until got dragon got pheonix la.

heard a good news today, our friend June aka Sam has broke up with her crap shit boyfriend.

hoorays! no wonder i tink her pics on friendster looks better these days.

cheers to good girls rid of maggot boyfriends who don't appreciates them.
Labels: My Khaki, My Logic, My Random-ness

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Tuesday, March 27, 2007

Done my Best? What Can I Do?

What Can I Do - is the crappiest piece of rubbish to ever come across a person's mind. totally cripples you, and demoralise you.

Done my best - is when you've done all you can in the given time frame, depleted all the resources given to you, be it help from people or physical property, and the clock strucks and announce "the end of examination, pens down" ; that is when you've done your best.

Its your life we're talking about here. the given time frame is 1 LIFETIME. you might not have done your N lvl well, you might not have done your MDIS well, so what? that's all in life?

You know what, those rich asses that we see slacking out there these days, many of them haven much papers. We both know Peter Ng for one. was it bill gates or the creative guy who study halfway go start business and quit school? what ever, anyways, someone quit sch and still got fuking rich.

Look, you're still alive, that means you have not depleted your resources, neither your given time frame to complete the game.

Resources also includes chances. Chances don't come telling you: eh i'm here, take me. neither does it mean chances come then definitely is yours. we studied business, though GPA sux, but we noe what it means by you need to have adequate Strength to Tap on Opportunities when it comes striking. how ready are you to deserve certain opportunities?

You've mentioned financial problem. we both know how weak we are handling our money. especially when you like to juz heck and go ahead at times, eat first then say kinda thing. and the killer for us both, TAXI.

you know what i hate most about you? when we hit an issue, you would run away and don't want to talk about it. cos u assume that we are both too agitated to bother to listen and solve problem. look, its a thing about compromising and also convincing lor. if your opinion is that right, and mine is that wrong, convince me. if we both have a point, compromise.

its insulting to have a good fren running away at times lidat cos it either mean that my dear fren assumes i'm a childish selfish moron who would not compromise or she herself is one.

my dear, we are both turning 20. we hafta face LIFE le. no more running away.

if things are not right, fix it. BEFORE the day you breath your last breathe, you've not tried your best to fight for your own happiness.

but of cos, i must remind you that, sometimes, its not just about obstinately running in one direction and ending yourself in the tip of the horn with no way to go. you have to think of ways and find the next best thing to do, and get yourself out of the fix.

i dunno how much of this post you've understood or misunderstood what i m trying to tell you. i can only say i've tried to help, but probably not my best just yet.

stop saying hurting things like you're alone. that only tells me what ever little things i do will not be appreciated. cos you've void my previous little efforts.

my boss just told me that he is a little bit unhappy with the rate of my progress at picking up the work.

i've tried hard, you and her know what. but i noe well enough, i've not done my best.
cos i've not tried ALL THAT I CAN. i still have another month to the end of the learning period, i know i still can do more to improve the situation. i won't give up.

if i can't even push myself to be good enough to tap on this opportunity, i have no right to ask for more in life. this is such a basic thing. if i give up easily on this, i do not have any right to ask for more things.

i don't want to regret again.

i saw my PSLE results, i saw my o level results, i saw my musical achievement, i saw my poly results transcript, its not pretty. i was given all the time, resources and help that i need, in fact i was so favoured by Heaven tat i was blessed with wonderful people at most times, a nice pay and nice environment for my internship while others struggle with suckers. at that time, i noe something has to be done, i tried, but i noe i never tried the hardest, that's why i only got improvement but not colourful results.

this time i m not going to allow myself for a choice other than the choice of trying my hardest, i am really happy now, to be pushing myself forward.

i want you to be happy too. please don't give up.. if you've done all you can at wherever u did, then you have to start trying other things, if not you have not fuly utilised the resources that is fated to be given to you in this life.

lets work hard together! this post is not just a reply to yours, but a reminder for me, for my determination, as of tomorrow.

i haven tried my hardest the previous month, now i want to. this is a job i want, this is where i wan to go, i shall fully utilise all the time and resources.

i thought long and hard to write this to reply you, this is the 4th draft. so please do me some justice by not reading it with perception thank u. please jiu shi lun shi bit bit and read again if u are agitated now thankx..
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Monday, October 23, 2006

Lack of Maternal Instinct or Navigation Sensitivity?

was at vivocity juz now with amos and his parents, having dinner at one of the food court [not sure if its kopitiam or banquet, cos the two foodcourts is side by side].

i saw this walking hazard of a human which made me spit out my tempura prawn -_-"

this woman was carrying a toddler on her left arm, the toddler's face over her shoulder. she kept moving frontwards, with her god damn sight fixed on the sign board of the stalls on her right. she never look at where she's walking lor!

coming her way was a young man with a mini-steamboat in his hands. seeing that he has no way to retreat, and the woman kept advancing towards him, the man's face very panicky sia lol. i see also sweat lor. kaoz. the young man n his hot pot is on the side where the toddler is lor!

stupid woman. lucky she stop in time when the young man call out to her -_- its like 1 head spacing between the steamboat n the toddler lor kaoz.

MORAL of the STORY:

when bringing young kids to food places, watch out for hazards like hot food & beverages that people are carrying about, which might fall and scald the kids;

cutleries that people might drop and poke the kids;

people holding trays of food, and concentrating on the food so as not to drop it, but couldn't see a mini-human beneath the tray, and bump into them;

or hyper active kids who can't sit still and gotta run around in the food premise, and pose as potential hazards to the other patrons and servers.
Labels: My Complaints Aloud, My Logic

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