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Sunday, July 22, 2007

同性结婚，可以吗?

saw yiting's bulletin to ask for comments at Shoot 3 有话就说3 forum; this is my reply there...

why not?

the basis of a bond in marriage is that one will stay with
thy spouse through good times and bad times, through health and through
sickness, through wealth and troubled times.

as long as they abide by
these vows, and truly love each other, why must force them to go through a
marriage with a socially acceptable partner whom they don't love?

i
think it is more cruel to make them live with someone they don't love, and cruel
to make their unloved spouse live with them, then to not have children.

and most of all, if they ever have children with their unloved spouse,
wouldnt it be cruel to have the child at all? to be a child in a home with no
love, how should the child brought up to know how to love, how to have faith in
marriage?

wouldnt that ultimately still lead us to low marriage, low
birth rates, high divorce rates, high social problems due to broken families?

and most of all, there's probably just 1 outta 30 person that you find
gay, you still have 29 others who are not. be it if gay marriage are allowed or
not, the birth rate thingy is a social problem due to the standard of living.
for goodness sake stop heaping this reason on the gay community.

as
maslow's hierarchy has it, its a basic need for a human to seek peer acceptance.
the prescence of gay club shows how lonely this community is, and how outcasted
they are to have to set up their own little communities to support each other.

personally, i have never had the tendency of being attracted to people
of my same gender, hence i don't know how gay people feel or think. but i
believe, as long as they abide by their vow to each other, to love through good
times and bad times, they should be given the support. afterall, the socially
acceptable marriage don't always end up good; look at the divorce rates.

sharing something i heard in a speech from a wedding yesterday,

the only love you get to keep is the love you give away.

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